The quality of being outstanding or extremely good; extremely high quality, superiority, eminence.
I feel like this summer has been the season of excellence for me. I think it all started when I went to the Northeast Regional of the Crossfit Games. Watching the athletes seeing them performing at a level of excellence in their sport was so inspiring. It started me thinking of how I can live my life with excellence. I am not a professional athlete. I am a wife, mom and Jesus girl who on most days just does the best I can. What would excellence look like for me? And is excellence even possible? Or is the journey towards excellence really what it is all about?
I stated to think about every part of my life:
Wife: Excellence as a wife. For me that means respecting my husband above all else. Praying for him, supporting him and giving him love. There will be days when he makes me angry and respect is the furthest thing from my mind but excellence would be doing it anyway even when I don’t want to.
Mom: This is a tough one. On most days excellence is getting through the day with my daughter in one piece. Excellence as a mom for me is loving my daughter, teaching her Gods word and praying with and for her. If I get those covered in a day everything else usually works itself out. Doing all of these thing even when I don’t feel like it is excellence.
Women who loves Jesus: For me this is the hardest. There is no faking this, no just getting by. For me excellence is spending time with God each day in his word and speaking with him. But most of all excellence is letting go of me and making it all about him. I wake up everyday and ask for strength and wisdom to do both. Doing all of these things even when I don’t feel like it is excellence.
Friend: Loving everyone that comes into my life. Giving them support and the grace that God gives me. Encouraging them when they are down, celebrating with them when they are up. Believing in them even when they doubt themselves. Being kind. Doing all of these things even when I don’t feel like it is excellence.
Business Woman/ Athlete: My weakness is peace. All I want is to have quiet and nothing to do. I can be very lazy. As an athlete this manifests itself as holding back in workouts, overthinking lifts and doubting my ability. In business this lead me to weeks of inaction, procrastination and Netflix binges. To fight this I focus on grace and let go of perfection. I try to treat every workout/business opportunity as a learning and do not make failure the enemy. I make instead make mediocracy the enemy. Doing all of these things even when I don’t feel like it is excellence
Feelings are really powerful and the world will tell you that they matter above all else. But feelings are not the truth and are fleeting. Feelings last for a moment and make us do things (or not do things) that in retrospect could have changed our life.
The enemy of excellence is mediocracy. Its remaining the same. Its staying safe right where you are. You may not fail but you will never truly taste excellence.